CHANGE OF DATE: JANUARY 14, 2017
Unlocking the Mystery of Pursuer Softening
Jennifer Olden, LMFT, Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and SupervisorSUBJECT:
We can all appreciate the difficulty of working with a pursuer who is having difficulty softening, despite their best intentions.These folks can pose a challenge for even the most seasoned clinicians, especially in Stage Two.
During this interactive event we will watch video clips of EFT trainers working with couples in Stage Two, with commentary provided by Jennifer Olden MFT. We will watch seasoned clinicians deepen emotions, transform blocks into openings, catch bullets seamlessly, and then facilitate enactments that create deep content and in-the-moment change.
Time will allow for us to work with partners with the goal to make the process of pursuer softening in Stage Two clean, measurable, and doable.
Having a didactic and experiential presentation will allow us to walk away with a fresh approach to integrate the moves necessary for a successful pursuer reach.
1) Learn how to stay with the pursuer's process, be directive as necessary, and shore up the withdrawer so he/she can reach back with support.
2) Be able to describe pursuer's step 7, including the Possible Blamer Reach, Processing Fears of Reaching, View of self and View of other and the Actual Reach.
3) Practice through role plays with other participants how to move out of content into attachment longings, frame complaints as reaches for closeness and connection, and help the pursuer send a clear and vulnerable attachment message.
Jennifer Olden, MFT is an ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and an EFT Supervisor with a private practice in Sacramento, California. She specializes in couples and her interests focus on trauma recovery through strengthening attachments. She provides EFT supervision and facilitates several EFT training groups, specifically the EFT lab and an EFT certification class. She is currently teaching EFT online through The EFT Lab. She earned her Bachelor degree in English from California State University Chico and her Master in Marriage and Family Therapy at California State University Sacramento.
10:00 AM - Networking and Professional Socialization (not included in CE credits)
10:30 AM - NCCEFT Announcements (not included in CE credits)
10:50 AM - Training begins
11:50 AM - 10-minute break (not included in CE credits)
12 NOON - Training reconvenes
1:00 PM - Training adjourns
This training is appropriate for mental health practitioners who work with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Level is introductory to intermediate.
This training is free to members, who will receive Continuing Education (CE) credit at no charge. This training is available to non-members for $10, and CE credit is available for an additional $25. Payment may be made by cash or check made out to NCCEFT. As payment is collected at the door, no refunds or cancellations are available.
This course meets the qualifications for 2 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and/or LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences;
Psychologists: The Northern California Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (NCCEFT) is approved by the CPA OPD to sponsor continuing professional education for psychologists in California. NCCEFT maintains responsibility for this program and its content. (Provider # NOR055)
NCCEFT is approved by the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists to sponsor continuing education for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs and/or LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences. NCCEFT maintains responsibility for this program/course and its content. Provider # 93337
Those who attend this workshop in full, complete the course evaluation and sign in/out will receive CE credits. A certificate of completion will be provided at the end of the workshop. Please note that credit will only be granted to those who attend the entire workshop. Those arriving more than 15 minutes after the start time or leaving before the workshop is completed will not receive CE credit.
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